Ever happened to them? Someone comes and tells you something ... honestly insulting. Your course you take off the attack skillfully, there was no physical or psychological harm, like kung fu master skillfully deflect guamazo not received one iota of its strength ... or so I thought lol. I remember a teacher of "artistic" from high school one day I have seen, so the middle class and says ... "This kid is going to be bald by age 18, look nomas and has entries" ... see the blow coming fast, you put yourself in position and divert the force to another direction ... "Fucking stupid old man, who the hell knows," thought in my folk lexicon puberty, and now ... really did not hurt, nothing happened ... Two weeks later I arreglandondome for the afternoon of the secu ... I can not help thinking that these entries seem petty Vegetto! MAMS not the dude did not hit me ... gave me planted a bomb that exploded weeks later ... jajajajaja inche Kabron Romero. However chingon
you are, for sure you are, everyone has their weak points and if someone knows them can give you a scrub, at least emotionally speaking ... sometimes people do it unwittingly and unintentionally scrub you lol.
However, there are also time bombs very visible, at least for those involved, but we humans do not often see what they DO NOT want to see. At the end is worse when it is a time bomb no doubt at some point is going to explode just a matter of that ... time. So, your love life, your marriage, a good friend or your work can blow up any time now and it seems that life is unfair, it was all very sudden and was not your fault it was someone / something else. .. net and many times the truth is that NO, there was a problem but decided to ignore what it TU fault.
If your partner loves going to concerts and go see places on the weekends you and you just like staying home to play games, watch movies or just hanging out with friends ... there is a potential time bomb ... is likely that eventually meet someone who shares their interests (especially if you're never there) or just get tired of you to say NO every time you try to do something that he / she likes. If your friend falls super good ... but are annoyed that the dude is always complaining about everything ... it is also likely that a day will fill the glass, which invite you to plan a day out for a few beers and you're saying "I'm busy" to listen not only complain about one ten thousandth time as their work is a waste without future. Sorry for the superficial and simple examples ... in reality life is much more complicated, but I think you get the point.
say that life is in the details, and I agree ... 1000 days worth more than 1 or 2 hits in the regaste horrible. But we must open our eyes and see objectively if not these watered every day, perhaps in something that transcends small but very important when you add much, we must see beyond what we want from life or others and see the most obvious, what we are doing the same to reach the life that we and our relationships with others. So we can disarm the bombs before they become a real danger ... but this is achieved by actions not words.